Book Signings

Authors of “Mothering, An Art of the Heart” are proud to announce that we will be at the Penfield Wegman’s tomorrow from 11 a.m. – 1 p.m.  Come see us! A portion of all proceeds will be donated to Step by Step, an outreach program of Volunteers of America of Western New York.  Thisyear, Step byStep is celebrating twenty years of empowering women who are, have been, or are at risk of being incarcerated to claim their strengths and build healthylives for themselves and their families.

There will also be a book signing after the Masses at Church of the Assumption, Fairport, NY on April 20-21!



Learning to Live with Others

Children need guidance and support as they navigate their expanding world of school and community.

What area of teaching your child/ren to interact with family and others do you find most difficult?


Kirkus Indie Review



A collection of short essays or anecdotes about the trials and rewards of motherhood edited by Shady and Figueiredo.

Organized into eight sections—“Joy,” “Nurturing,” “Socialization,” “Values,” “Traditions,” “Faith,” “Humor and Creativity,” and “Wisdom”—chapters explore the struggles and joys of learning how to fulfill the challenging role of motherhood. Writers share stories from when their children were born, entered adolescence and became parents themselves. The essays describe parents’ doubt and fear, loss and acceptance, and show how a family, at its best, serves as a network of support and unconditional love. One contributor writes about how easy it is to miss watching your child’s imagination grow: “Sometimes it takes a little bit of extra effort to make an ordinary day more enjoyable for those you love. But it is worth it.” Figueiredo includes an insightful, straightforward list of the lessons she’s learned from her own mother, from her friends, from her children and from herself. The lessons range from the practical—“a clean baby is a happy baby”—to the theoretical—“don’t underestimate the potential of your child.” Overall, the book captures the conflicting emotions that motherhood can bring, but there are places where it could have delved deeper into the experience. For example, one author, Patricia Costigan, mentions that she was “caught in the darkness of depression” and struggled to enjoy many of the years when her children were young, but we do not get any concrete details about how this affected her experience as a mother. The strongest moments in the book include stories of how the writers overcame hardship—the death of an adult child and the diagnosis of breast cancer—and taught their children to do the same. Though nine mothers contribute to the collection, the perspective is limited to a white, mostly Catholic point of view, which informs many of the stories. Likewise, the family structures are similar in construction and values.

Though the book does not offer a wide range of experience in terms of race, demographic or even family dynamic, the stories here do reflect the title and show how mothering is, in fact, an art of the heart.

Chapter 5 –Traditions

Celebrating Life Together…

“Traditions make connections within the family and between generations, creating feelings of closeness and a sense of identity.”

What memorable traditions would you like to share for your family?


Publication praises “Mothering, An Art of the Heart”

“Mothering, An Art of the Heart” is the featured article in the Our Lady of Mercy Alumnae News!  Mentioned in the article are the authors and the daughters of authors who have graduated from Our Lady of Mercy High School, Rochester, NY.  “I can’t think of a better example of how an all-girl high school education creates bright, clever, collabortive, strong, independent women, than the experience of writing this book,” said JoAnn Figueiredo, class of ’71 and editor.

Chapter 1 — Joy

Joy: Enjoying Family Life

Our desire as mothers is to create an atmosphere in which joy can flourish.

How have our stories of joy helped you think about the joy that bubbled up in your family recently?